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From: j.m
From1: jcmventura@yahoo.com
Date: 8/18/2006
Time: 3:21:57 AM
Remote Name: 71.109.124.74
At the start of the year my relationship of nine years ended with my fiance. I have been on a roller coaster ride between anger and sadness. After a couple of months trying to save the relationship i gave up and tried to move on. I stopped talking to her and went out after some time was able to meet new people. Here lies the problem: she recently contacted me to have some sort of relationship because we have so much history together. I am reluctent to agree to this but ever since the initial contact I cannot get her out of my mind. I am still inlove with her and I have not been able to maintain I meaningful relationship with anyone because it feels like I am cheating on her. She is seeing somebody now(which is an old boyfriend that makes me feel that it is a comfort thing rather than love) and I don't know what to do. Do I follow my heart, or my brain? Will talking to her hinder my growth or bring us back together? I need help