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From: The Imagination Doctor
From1: billmarts@earthlink.net
Date: 9/25/2006
Time: 9:20:28 AM
Remote Name: 76.2.109.95
Usually the problem is fear. You father is in fear that he is not doing enough for you and that it is his fault that you are having problems. You best bet is to have counseling for everyone. This is something that needs worked out over the long term. My short term advice is to not take everything so seriously. Stop taking everything so personally. I the book, The Four Agreements," the gates to inner peace are: 1. Don't take it personally, 2. don't make assumptions, 3. Do the best you can, and 4. Be immpecible with your work. Try practicing these things. Consider that we are a stimulous/response organism. Over the years, we respond in a certain way. The more often we use the same response, the more it is engrained is us. If you want to break free, you need to educate yourself on this topic and begin to practice modifying your reponses. As we change what we see, what we see changes because we see what we are and we are what we see. Try going to our Emotional Leteracy page and learning how to modify your emotional responses. You are a powerful, spiritual, divine being: claim it. Rise above.