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From: The Imagination Doctor
From1: billmarts@earthlink.net
Date: 10/23/2006
Time: 10:07:09 AM
Remote Name: 76.2.109.95
Here is something else for you to ponder in your imagination: What if your suspicions are completely unfounded? What if this is 100% a concoction of your imagination? A projection of your insecurities? A mirror of your own self-mistrust stemming from your knowledge of your own mind's ponderings regarding extra-marrital sex? And yet, without an ounce of litigimate evidence, you live out this fear in your imagination time and time again. Do you think it might be having any side effects on your relationship? Do you think it could actually push your wife into an affair in the end? Persoanlly, I would much rather create and image of my wife in my mind as a wonderful, trust-worthy person who I admire. I would know that these types of imaginings will also have side effects that rub off into our relationship. In the end, if my wife is cheating on me, I will at least have given my heart, soul, and mind to our relationship and have had peace of mind with a clear conscience. Everyone subconsciously picks up on our private imagingings. We give them away with our the look of our eye contact, vocal tones, facial expressions, body language and other subtle actions. Raise your mind far above worrying secretly about whether or not your wife is sneaking around on you. Jealousy is a terrible emotion. Do away with it. It stems from an over active imagination riding on a lack of trust, insecuritiy, and fear. It is a very low mental state regarding marriage. If you dare to dicipline your mind to rise above to dabble in trust and honor with admiration and loving kindness, the quality of your life experience will rise also. You are a powerful, spiritual, divine being. Claim it. And live it. Imagine it and it becomes you and your reality. Good, pure, positive, clean and honest imaginings are the perfume of our inner essence.