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From: The Imagination Doctor
From1: billmarts@earthlink.net
Date: 11/18/2006
Time: 12:08:00 PM
Remote Name: 76.2.109.95
The most important thing about socializing is communication. You obviously have a fear block when it comes to talking to people, especially the opposite sex. The only thig you can do is work on your communication skills and fear block. A therapy to start with is to take a walk and as often as possible, look a stranger in the and and say, "Hello." You will notice how much junk comes up in your imagination as you attempt a simple hello. You must change what you imagine as you attempt this hello. Run good, positive, clean, honest and pure imaginings of yourself through your imagination before each hello. See yourself as a wonderful person with lots to offer and a good catch to boot. There was an experimint a a college where a freshman boy who was shy was told to take up conversations with as many girls as possible and record everything in a journal. He was rejected time and time again. Yet, he did improve. Oddly, in his senior year, he had dated more girls than any guy in the school, demonstrating how communication skills can spill over into your social life. If you would like, I would be glad to keep in communication with such an experiment as you try this. I will help you conquer your imaginary fears of communication. Its time to start confronting this fear. You will be amazed at how you too will improve. You are a powerful, spiritual, divine being. Claim it.