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From: mindy
From1:
Date: 3/21/2008
Time: 12:18:18 AM
Remote Name: 75.130.212.189
I do not trust my husband. About 3 years ago, I caught him engaged in a relationship with another woman. Evidence included: cell phone records, condoms in glove compartment of car, trip out town to his home town on "family business" on which I could not go, loss of interest in sex, etc. We never engaged in therapy, but we got through it and he has given all indication since then that I have nothing to be worried about. Being that he is a compulsive liar, I have failed to be convinced and for good reason. About 3 weeks ago I discovered a second cell phone. I was dumb enough to ask him about it and of course, being the accomplished liar that he is, he had a perfectly good explanation. He said that is for work and belongs to the job. I know he's lying because I saw the bill and it is addressed to our home address. He has the only key to the mailbox so I don't get to see the mail. I don't trust him and I don't really want him to touch me. Nothing feels sincere. What should I do?