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Re: No Trust at All

From: The Imagination Doctor
From1: billmarts@gamil.com
Date: 3/21/2008
Time: 1:58:44 PM
Remote Name: 71.3.23.249

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Assuming that what you have posted is indeed all true and not hyped, it appears that your husband is cheating again. It seems that it is time for marriage counseling. This is not going to go away without professional help. You are not going to just going to forget this. A marriage without trust and respect is crippled. If you husband refuses counseling, the work needed to heal your marriage will not get done. If the new phone you found is really for work, it shouldn't be hard to prove through openness on his behalf. There is a chance that he is telling the truth and your lack of faith in him is imagining the worst. If he is not willing to do all he can to smooth this out, he has a problem. In reality, it is not what you do, it is how things look. So, if things don't look so good, the person whom is on the defence should, out of respect for the marriage and love for his or her spouse, be willing to do what it takes to heal things. This is what love is all about.

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